Friday, June 11, 2010

Creepers!

Ok so I am a really friendly person and I get along with just about anyone but there are certain things guys do that just weird me out.
First of all, if I don't know you and we have never really talked before, don't IM me like "hey sexy whats good" it's a total turn off! I DON"T KNOW YOU! I might just be overreacting because I don't take compliments well but it is just so weird when we hardly ever talk and the only thing you want to focus on is how good I look! This sounds so cocky but I am sure I am not the only girl who gets the random messages from even more random guys telling you how hot you are.
Maybe my whole point is if you aren't all that close with me then do not hit on me!
For example, I am transferring schools in the fall and obviously I am making new friends and trying to get to know people that might be going there. I am going to be a junior and these freshman boys keep IMing me acting like they know me and they are like "Oh I can't wait to see you around campus in a bathing suit. Don't be a tease!" blah blah blah!!! My response is...
WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU?!
You are a freshman & I am a junior so you already are not on my level and for you to think you have any right to come out of no where and think you can hit on me... see if I even know you exist once I get to campus. OMG like this one kid got soooo pissed that I wouldn't give him my number! Mind you the first conversation we ever had was him hitting on me so I already didn't want to deal with him so I was like um no? I don't know you and I don't know if you are going to be giving my number out to other random guys. He flipped out! He was like are you serious?! Who would I give it to?! Just give me your number...
Needless to say that is the last time I will ever speak to him.

Like don't be a tool. Friggin creeps...

Monday, June 7, 2010

"and i made myself so easy to love..."

Unfortunately jealous bitches ruin things for everyone.
I had to change my comment settings because people are immature and need to grow up.
This is not a formspring...it is a blog. Which means if you are reading it and you dislike me then you are just revolving your life around mine. You look stupid.
I don't think it is cute when people look stupid and I don't find it cute when people don't grow up from high school bullshit, therefore people can no longer comment on my blog.
It is here for people who actually give a shit, and if you don't give a shit THEN STOP READING IT!
If I wanted people to be pussys and leave anonymous hate comments i would have made a formspring :)

thank you & goodnight!

Sunday, June 6, 2010

It Was The Summer Time...

"Summer romances begin for all kinds of reasons, but when all is said and done, they have one thing in common. They're shooting stars, a spectacular moment of light in the heavens, fleeting glimpse of eternity, and in a flash they're gone."
-The Notebook

This has to be one of the most truthful and meaningful quotes of all time.
Unfortunately summer romance is the exact reason why I refuse to get involved with anyone. To me, I will never feel love like I did last summer and if that is the case then I don't want to waste any ones time. If anyone else were to come along I would just be settling for them. Summer love always ends. It has too. There is no way a great thing like that can ever last. All good things must come to an end. It sounds cliche but it's true. Although, it doesn't say anything about great things. I guarantee there is not one girl out there that hasn't experienced summer love that does not think about it every single day of her life. If you happen to be that one girl, then there is something wrong with you. Or if you have found a way to not think about it please let me know what your trick is!

I finally found out what summer love felt like. I had never been happier in my entire life. As this summer approaches I can't even say I'm excited. Yeah I can't wait for the warm weather and the beaches, sun kissed skin, and baseball games, but these kind of things come around every year. Nothing will ever compare to how I felt last summer. I've moved on. We both did because there was no other choice. I am glad I experienced the feelings I did but losing those feelings is what makes me want to regret it even happened. I sometimes wonder whether it would have been better for me never to have gotten involved in that summer romance. Then I would never spend half of my time missing him, focusing on things that no longer exist, and I wouldn't be hoping for something to happen that never will. Was it really worth it in the end? My mind changes everyday...

Thursday, June 3, 2010

On To The Next One!

OMG GIRLS!
you need to stop letting guys hit it so quickly!
first of all it is not cute. second of all guys just think you are a total whore if you give it up the first week you meet them.
and they have the right to think that. yes, half the time it is there fault. they will go out to a club and of course they are attracted to the girl who has her ass and tits hanging out. they should automatically know the girl is a huge slut by the outfit she is wearing but we know boys don't mature as fast as girls do so we have to cut them a little slack.
if you are having sex with a guy within a week of meeting them, even within two weeks of meeting them, they are going to lose interest so fast. you have to make them chase it. play with their heads a little bit! they do it to us so you might as well get a head start. the guy is never going to notice who you are as a person if you are naked in his bed before you even really get to know each other. the topic of conversation he will be having with his guy friends will end up being something stupid like "yo dude her tits are huge!" or "she couldn't really keep up." or "yeah I'll probably hit that the rest of the summer. call her whenever I'm drunk."
...you know stuff along those lines.
at least if he knows you a little bit first he can say stuff like "did you know she teaches aerobics class at the gym? that's probably why her ass is so tight."
he will have a little more insight when he has guy talk with the rest of his buddies.

Now ladies, I know guys don't know this but girls look for fuck buddies too. If this is the case you have to make sure it is with someone who you don't plan on ending up with. I'm not saying it couldn't work out because it might, but you normally aren't fuck buddies with someone if you are trying to make the relationship go somewhere. hit it & quit it! girls need to be careful though because as much as we want someone to just mess around with you know for damn sure a little bit of feelings get involved. when you start getting upset because your fuck buddy is dating other people, you better hit it one last time and be out!

It's on to the next one!

-Carrie <3